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Himanshu Dani is an ex-anxiety sufferer and a blogger who finds peace in writing on anxiety and panic disorder. He likes to communicate with sufferers, soothe their nerves and make their lives better is some way.

Fear of Fainting and Lightheadedness: Harmless panic symptoms

Himanshu Dani

Whenever panic strikes it is the first feeling you notice. You feel you are going out of balance and that you are about to pass out.

Most people think that it due to some abnormality related to blood pressure or the balance system in our inner ears (The vestibular system) or they have a brain tumor which is making them dizzy, light headed and feel like fainting.

Lightheadedness and fear of fainting are interconnected in the case of the people suffering from anxiety or panic disorder. For them, lightheadedness often causes the fear of passing out or fainting and collapsing. This ultimately invites a full blown panic attack.
The common fears associated with the feeling of fainting are:

  • Fear of fainting in the public places.
  • Fear of fainting while driving or operating machinery.
  • Fear that you have a brain tumor.
  • Fear that you have a heart blockage and that is causing dizziness.
  • Fear that you will lose the sense of balance and you will not be able to stand erect.

 All of these fears are the negative thoughts which are the symptom of anxiety.

Yes. Negative Catastrophic thoughts are a symptom of anxiety.

Do you want to know how these fears are false?

For that first of all, we need to understand what fainting actually is:

Fainting occurs when there is low blood supply to the brain. It is a brief and sudden period of unconsciousness which is due to sudden and brief fall in the blood pressure. It means fainting occurs when there is simply less than needed supply of oxygen to the brain.

There can be a host of reasons which cause a reduction in the oxygen supply to the brain (cerebral oxygen).

In most cases, that is not all dangerous.  The circulatory system tries it’s best to provide ample of oxygen-rich blood to the brain. But because of some reasons, the deficit cannot be met.

In this case the body- brain system has a protective mechanism to restore normal oxygen supply to the brain. The head is above the heart. Therefore the heart has to work harder to supply blood to the brain because the gravity exerts a downward force on the blood.

Our nervous system then makes us unconscious and we faint. When we faint we collapse on the ground. This makes it easy for the heart to pump the blood to the brain as the body is in the lied down position.

This restores the normal oxygen supply to the major areas of the brain. As soon as the condition gets back to normal we get conscious again and we are fine without any harm to our body or health.

It can be understood from the above discussion that fainting is a reflex to certain conditions in the body which generally are related to the reduced oxygen supply to the brain.  It is a restoring mechanism of the mind-body system.  It restores normal oxygen supply to the brain to make your body function normally.

So, now it is pretty clear that fainting is not a dangerous or harmful thing.

What that has to do with the fear of fainting in the panic attacks?

Lightheadedness and Fear of Fainting

When you are anxious or having a panic attack you are probably breathing hard.

This increases the proportion of oxygen in your blood. Also, your heart is pounding and consequently your blood pressure rises as you are in the panic.

So in your case, the two conditions – low blood pressure and low oxygen supply to the brain are not met. This is the reason you don’t faint and collapse.

Look back and remember your past panic attacks. There is not a single incident of you collapsing or fainting.

You only got dizzy and lightheaded or disoriented to some extent. Hyperventilation causes these symptoms. It is very common to breathe rapidly and deeply in stress, anxiety or panic attacks. This causes hyperventilation and it makes you go dizzy, lightheaded, tired and anxious.

Again, hyperventilation is not dangerous. It just produces these uncomfortable symptoms which make you believe that you have some serious health problem.

This fear is because of misinterpretation of the symptoms of anxiety:

Dr.Helen Odessky, Psy. D  of yourchicagotherapist.com says on Fear of Fainting in Panic Attacks

 The causes of anxiety and panic disorder are:

1. Genetic predisposition ( But it does not mean that anxiety is incurable)

2. Environmental factors/conditions when you were brought up.

3. Physiological causes.

When you think of developing self-help strategies for dealing with panic disorder, there is actually no use of thinking on the causes of it. The success of treatment for anxiety and panic does not depend on whether you have understood the causes of them.

Genetic predisposition is something that cannot be controlled. Environmental factors, in which you were brought up have now gone in the past and we cannot do anything about them. Physiological causes are the causes which are due to some dysfunctions or diseases in the body. They can be corrected with proper treatment and that can resolve the problem.

The maintenance factors of Anxiety and Panic disorder are:

1. Negative thinking.

2. Fearing the symptoms and panic itself.

3. Overthinking.

4. Safety behaviors.

All these factors are the ones which maintain anxiety and panic disorder in your life. They are the behaviors which psychologists call self-defeating behaviors. You feel that they are saving you from dangers but actually, in reality, they are creating more and more distress for you.

Fear of fainting is one of them:

Now you know,

  • It is just a fear of fainting
  • Fainting is not dangerous

A well-known Anxiety Therapist Dr. David Carbonell says he witnessed only 4 individuals in his 20-year long career of the Anxiety Treatment who fainted during panic attacks. You can see it in here.

Also read: How To Reduce Anxiety: Find time to Relax in this Busy World by doctor Dr.Helen Odessky, Psy. D

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5 Actionable Steps To Handle The Discomfort In Anxiety and Panic Attacks

Himanshu Dani

Anxiety is highly associated with discomfort.
The very characteristic of anxiety is to give you more and more discomfort.
This discomfort is taken as a danger to you and you get trapped in the cycle or recurring anxiety and panic attacks.

It is very important to identify if the discomforts are due to some physical conditions or anxiety. When a medical professional assures you that there are no medical causes to your discomfort and all of it is anxiety, you need not worry. You can manage your discomfort in anxiety with proper education and self-training.  You can also check out 3 panic attacks tricks that will actually make your life better

The discomforting(physical) symptoms of panic are:
  • Feeling uncomfortable for no reason
  • Getting restless
  • Tightness in the chest
  • Heaviness in chest
  • pressure or pain in the stomach with butterflies
  • Jitters
  • Pressure in the head
  • Trembling or Muscle vibrations
  • Fatigue

These are the somatic (bodily) symptoms which are regularly experienced by anxiety sufferers in varying intensity.

These 5 steps can be very helpful to you to reduce your discomfort in panic attacks or general anxiety

1. Do some simple exercises to calm downhow to manage anxiety discomfortWhen panic hits you, it is a state of high arousal of the nervous system.
You might be knowing that a panic attack is an emergency  alarm by your body to run away or combat with a danger. Only the difference here is that there is no real danger present in your case.

It is fight or flight response from our inbuilt survival mechanism which ensures us safety on this planet.

Adrenaline is a hormone produced in the adrenaline glands and it is the main chemical responsible for our nervous arousal. This hormone makes your body ready and capable of handling dangerous situations by giving you a good boost of energy and vitality. It makes you super aroused and agile to take action in certain situations. This is what we call adrenaline rush.

But here you don’t need to be powerful and agile as you are not in danger.

Then what do you do?

Just do Brisk Walking or simple exercise like jumping jacks. This has to be the first among the steps to handle the discomfort in Anxiety and Panic Attacks. That will utilize the extra boost of energy which you got from the adrenaline rush and it will help to calm your body from the aroused state. As you will return towards normal state the production of adrenaline will reduce as there will be no anxiety to fuel its production.

Finally, you will be able to calm down and focus on your breathing to relax further.

2.Focus on steady breathing

“Steady Breathing is the key to controlling the overall panic attack”

Breathing is the main aspect of the physiological process which controls the intensity of the physical symptoms of panic attacks.

When you are under stress or anxiety you breathe very fast and shallow. This happens unconsciously. You do not notice it. This causes hyperventilation.

Hyperventilation is the imbalance of the proportions of oxygen and carbon dioxide in the blood. During your rapid breathing more carbon dioxide is thrown out of the blood and more oxygen is taken in. More precisely it is a low proportion of carbon dioxide in the blood compared to the levels of oxygen.

The sensations of tingling, lightheadedness, and pins & needles are caused due to hyperventilation.  It feels you can’t catch your breath and you are running out of air/ oxygen. Many people also fear that they are suffocating because of some lung problems. 

Many people also fear that they are suffocating because of some lung problems

Therefore in stressful situations focus on your breathing and practice slow and steady breathing for a few minutes. This will help to restore the normal proportions of Oxygen and Carbon dioxide in your blood and that will help the panic attack end.

Steady breathing is an often suggested technique to manage anxiety by experts. This will help you get relief in a few minutes.

This will help you get relief in a few minutes.

3.Understand that this state is not permanent

“Like everything, even panic attacks have to end”

When panic and anxiety strikes and you go into the state of high discomfort you feel that it will never end or it will end up in a catastrophe.

But the truth is that anxiety can last longer but it can never last forever.

As you know anxiety is the alarm system of your body and it fires with the help of certain chemicals like adrenaline. Sooner or later the fear system will shut down and you will return to normal from this high aroused state of your nervous system.

Panic attack definitely has to end at some point of time. The reasons for this is the chemicals which support panic attack to sustain get reduced after a certain time. The physiological conditions responsible for the panic attack get subsided. Consequently , the panic attack ends.

4.Understand that it was not a beginning of catastrophe but a false signal of a catastrophe

“There is difference between a catastrophe and  just feelings of a catastrophe”

It is almost certain for you to think that it is a catastrophe.

YOU become certain that it is a heart attack.

You fear many things in this phase like fear of death fear of heart attack and catastrophic thoughts. It is necessary for you to understand that this is just an imitation of a catastrophic situation. It is not a real catastrophe.

It is not a danger but a false alarm of danger which you take it as real.

5. Get going after it ends: Don’t dwell on it!
 

                     “Overthinking fuels Panic Attacks”

This is a very important thing when you get normal after a discomforting episode of high anxiety. On the contrary, you generally keep on thinking about the episode and wonder what happened and how did it happen and what might have been the consequences of the panic attack. YOU feel like you dodged a bullet and the somehow you saved yourself from a heart attack or death.

This is the anticipatory anxiety which fuels next panic attack.

You feel that you have to think of all those things in order to save yourself from the dangers you are facing. But thinking on all of these things is really useless. It only creates more anxiety and keeps you trapped in a vicious cycle of crippling anxiety.

Have you noticed the power of  forgetting something?

Take this Example

Suppose you lost your golden ring and you are not aware of it. After some time it clicks to you suddenly. You get mad over it. You get angry, anxious and irritated and you rush everywhere to find it.

Until the sense of loss hit you, you were not concerned about it. The ring was lost and it was a real loss for you but you were not aware of it consciously. You went upset, anxious, worried and restless only when the thoughts about the loss surfaced your mind.

It means if we forget or ignore certain things they tend to be less bothersome to us and if we forget about a certain thing completely, we are completely free of the distress for a certain period of time.

The same thing applies here.

If you forget that you have had a panic attack or anxiety you will be in less distress.

If you stop worrying about the next panic attack, the fueling process will be blocked and you will be less likely to have another panic attack. You will be able to concentrate on your present better. These steps to handle the discomfort in anxiety and panic attacks are practical steps and they will require practice to get the desided results.

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Intrusive Thoughts in Panic Disorder: The Chaos You Face in Extreme Anxiety

Himanshu Dani

In almost all cases of Panic Disorder‚ the driving factor fuelling the sensations is anxious thinking. 

Without addressing these specific intrusive thoughts in panic disorder‚ there can be little success in eliminating the root of the anxiety.

People who experience anxiety and panic attacks frequently have to deal with the negative side–effects of unwanted thoughts that creep into their minds. 

These thoughts can range from worries about health‚ concern over loved ones‚ or even fears that do not make any rational sense at all but continue to linger in the mind.

Sometimes‚ the unwanted intrusive thoughts come from previous experiences; other times they are simply bizarre‚ leaving the person worried as to why such strange thoughts are occurring.

In all these cases‚ the person is upset by the anxious thoughts because they are causing distress and worry. I will guide you through a simple two–step process that is in part related to the One Move which I teach but tailored specifically to dealing with anxious thinking.

In all these cases‚ the person is upset by the anxious thoughts because they are causing distress and worry. I will guide you through a simple two–step process that is in part related to the One Move which I teach but tailored specifically to dealing with anxious thinking.

Anxious Intrusive Thoughts in Panic Disorder

Tackling anxious intrusive thinking effectively requires a two–pronged approach. To eliminate the negative thinking patterns‚ there needs to be a shift in attitude along with specific visualization tools.

The Attitude Shift is going to be the First Step

It is not the intrusive thoughts in themselves that cause you distress. It is how you are responding to those thoughts. It is the reaction you are having to the thoughts that enable them to have influence and power over you. In order to better understand how unwanted thoughts come about‚, it helps to paint a playful visual picture of how this happens. This is a fictional example and will help you better understand how to deal with the issue.

Imagine,

You are standing on a street and all around you thoughts are floating lazily by. Some of the thoughts are your own‚ other thoughts are from outside sources you access such as newspapers‚ TV‚ magazines‚ etc. You notice that when you pay attention to a thought it gravitates nearer. The thoughts you ignore float on by.

When you focus and examine a thought up closely‚ you notice how it connects to another similar thought‚ and you find yourself jumping from one thought to the next. Sometimes these are practical‚ day–to–day thoughts such as bills‚ chores‚ etc.‚ or the thoughts can theme by the past or a fantasy/daydream.

In our imagined scenario‚

You unexpectedly notice a thought hovering in front of you that scares you. This thought is called “Fear X.” X could be panic attacks‚ ill health‚ or something bizarre. You find it impossible not to look at the thought‚ and as you give it your full attention‚ this causes it to come closer and closer. When you examine the thought‚ you begin to react with fear as you do not like what you see. You further notice how that initial scary thought is connected to more worrying “what if” thoughts that you also examine in detail. The more you try to escape from the thought by pushing it away‚ the more it seems to follow you around as if it were stuck to you. You try to focus on more pleasant thoughts‚ but you find yourself continuously coming back to the fearful thought.

Intrusive Thoughts in Panic Disorder: The anticipation of Anxiety

There is an expression of “thoughts sticking like glue.”

The very act of reacting emotionally to the thought glues the thought all the more to you‚ and the more time you spend worrying and obsessing about the thought‚ the more that glue becomes hardened over time. The thought and all its associated connected thoughts are there in the morning when you wake and there at night when you are trying to get some sleep.

The thought becomes stuck because your emotional reaction to it is its sticking power! 

Thoughts are a form of energy‚ neither good nor bad. It is how we judge those thoughts that determines how much impact they have on our lives. Thoughts need firstly to be fed by attention‚ but what they really love is a good strong emotional reaction to make them stick!

Thoughts that stay with us are first attracted to us by the attention we pay them and then stuck firmly in place by the level of emotional reaction we have to them.

This is an important point

A thought–even negative intrusive thoughts–can only have an influence on you if you allow it to. The emotional reaction from us is a thought’s energy source. What’s interesting is that either a positive or a negative emotional reaction is fine for the thought. Energy and attention are what it is attracted to. Once you are having an emotional reaction to a thought‚ you will be regularly drawn to that thought until the emotional reaction has lost its energy and faded away.

For example‚

If someone you know pays you a very positive compliment‚ you may find yourself unintentionally drawn to that thought anytime you have a spare moment. You probably find it improves your overall level of confidence and mood throughout the day.

Sadly, however, we tend to focus less on the positive and more on the negative. We seem to forget those positive compliments all too easily and are drawn more frequently to what might upset us.

Taking the opposite example‚ if someone you know insults you‚ I am sure that you find the emotional reaction to that thought much more intense and probably very long–lasting.

So what has to be the best way to eliminate Intrusive Thoughts in Panic Disorder?

If you are not engaged in an activity or task‚ your mind will tend to wander to any thoughts that you are having a strong emotional reaction to. In general‚ as they are the ones that you are probably reacting most strongly to‚ angry or fearful thoughts seem to surface quickly.

Suppressing the Thoughts won’t help!

What I am suggesting is that suppressing the Intrusive thoughts in panic disorder is the most ineffective way to get rid of them.

Thought suppression studies‚ (Wegner‚ Schneider‚ Carter‚ & White‚ 1987) have proven that the very act of trying to suppress a thought‚ only results in a higher frequency of unwanted intrusive thoughts occurring.

This reoccurrence of the thought has been termed the ‘rebound effect’.

Simply put: The more you try suppressing a thought‚ the more the unwanted thought keeps popping up (rebounding).

Next readHow To Eliminate Intrusive Thoughts If You Suffer Panic Disorder

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3 Panic Attack tricks That Will Actually Make Your Life Better

Himanshu Dani

I understand it’s a very difficult condition.

I suffered from Panic Disorder for 4 years and once I coincidentally came across the techniques about managing anxiety and panic attacks taught by Anxiety Coach Barry McDonagh.

I realized that I was behaving in certain ways which were empowering my fear and frustration. Actually, I was thinking that my attitude towards this problem would help me get rid of panic. But the truth was contrary. By behaving and thinking in those ways I was actually fueling my anxiety and panic.

Therefore, examining my thinking styles and behavior patterns and changing them so as to get out of the suffering was important. I understood this thing and I implemented these three changes in my behavior whenever I had anxiety or panic attack. That resulted in a reduction in my anxiety and gave me the confidence to face my fears. Of course, it needed practice and that didn’t happen overnight.

Anxiety Coach and Author Barry McDonagh!          explains 3 Things Not to Do During A Panic Attack

If you learn and implement these three things consciously in your daily life your distress will get reduced and you will gain confidence to live your life without fear.

They are:

Panic Attack Trick 1: Do NOT RESIST a panic attack

The number one mistake people make when they feel a panic attack begin, is to try and fight or resist it. It is an automatic response to want to fight the panic off but it does not help, in fact, it makes matters worse. What we resist persists.

When you try to fight it only becomes more and more intense. You feel you are trying to save your life with this behavior but it doesn’t help. You fall into a turmoil of anxiety and panic. You need to adopt a new approach of ‘non-resistant flow.’

Whenever you feel anxious and panicky don’t resist it. Instead, welcome it. Request or Beg it to get worse. Act as if you expected it and you badly want it. As you do it, it begins to fade. This is called Paradoxical Intention and it is the fastest way to end a panic attack.

so, the first panic attack trick is – Do not resist a panic attack. Let it happen and lose power over you.

Panic keeps on getting intense because you fear it and interpret it as dangerous. When you don’t fear it and welcome it and tell it to get worse, it actually subsides. It is basically a fear of fear, and when you learn not to fear the fear intensity of panic decreases. Anxiety and Panic increase when resisted or feared and subside when ignored with proper techniques.

Panic Attack Trick 2: Do NOT fear ‘losing control’ in panic attack

The second mistake people make when having a panic attack is to fear they are going to lose control of their body or their minds.

You fear it will cause you to faint or cause a seizure or even paralyze you. You apprehend that you are about to loose your mind and you will hurt yourself or anybody.

Many people get the feeling that the are going insane. But, none of these fears are real. Nothing like this happens.

These are the symptoms of panic and anxiety. Negative feelings and perceptions are the symptoms of this problem. They are temporary and pass away sooner or later.

I understand it is extremely difficult to bear these fears when you are in social situations or outside at your workplace or wherever. I’ve suffered it. The dread is impossible to explain with words.

The second panic attack trick is – Understanding that panic attack does not cause fainting. Your body and mind are well able to handle the heightened nervous arousal of a panic attack. Learn how to let go of this fear.

Panic Attack Trick 3: Do NOT think panic attack will last forever

Panic attacks have a natural cycle of peaking and then easing off. Like a wave rising and falling, they do pass. Remind yourself of this fact when you fear the panic attack will never end. It will never escalate to the point of no return. Sooner or later our body slows down and we find the fear is subsiding.

Thinking that this condition of the panic attack itself will last forever is a kind of negative thinking. You might have suffered many panic attacks in the past and you can recall that they eventually ended. Your thinking actually empowers panic and makes you a week person. So the third panic attack trick is – You need to give up this attitude.

Anxiety is making you a strong human being because you are enduring a great deal fo fear. It takes a ton of guts and endurance to face such kind of overwhelming fear and you must be glad, you are so strong. Soon you will realize it that you can handle it and get cured.

Take care

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Recovery from Panic Attacks: Do not count Setbacks

Himanshu Dani

The process of Recovery from Panic surely has setbacks!

Have you ever wondered why people often experience setbacks when they begin to tackle their anxiety and want Recovery from panic attacks?

Setbacks happen because, as you face your anxiety and the situations that make you feel uncomfortable, the avoidant/protective side of your personality becomes active.

When you decide to tackle your anxiety issue head on, recovery from panic attacks will definitely happen.

Your protective side doesn’t like taking risks and feels better when you don’t put yourself in situations that make you feel anxious.

It’s the part of you that says:

“Let’s stay in our comfort zone today. At least we’re safe here.”

This part of your personality has your interests at heart, but you know deep down that a life cocooned from all adversity doesn’t lead to happiness.

When you begin your healing journey, it’s all new and it can feel like you’re moving into unknown territory. You quickly master areas of your life that were causing you problems.

Your protective side takes a back seat and watches with suspicion as you make this progress. Then, after a while, your protective side becomes more active for fear that, with all this progress, a great fall must be just around the corner.

As you move upward and onward, your protective side gets scared and tries to put on the brakes. This creates a conflict and fuels feelings of anxiety.

The feelings can be very intense and might be similar to what you’ve experienced before such as panic and general unease or there may be new sensations never experienced before.

You might have been doing really well for a week, but then your protective side pops its head up and says something like this:

“Okay, well done. We’re not worried about dizzy spells anymore -fine. But what’s that ringing in your ear?”

“That sounds like trouble to me . . . LET’S GET WORRIED.

“No panic attacks in a week-great. But don’t be fooled. That means a really BIG one is about to pounce!”

These thoughts undermine your confidence. Suddenly you’re feeling vulnerable again, and the anxiety can return as your confidence dips and you obsess again about the way you feel.

This kind of response is natural in recovery from panic attacks, and if you’ve experienced a setback recently, I want to show you how to best deal with it.

Recovery from Panic will only happen if you ignore Setbacks:

The first thing to remember on the road to recovery from panic attacks is that setbacks happen. Try to never let a setback convince you that you’re not making progress. It doesn’t mean that all your progress has been undone.

In general, setbacks are inevitable, and you need to have an accepting attitude toward them.

Secondly, setbacks form part of your healing.

To move beyond the anxiety, you need to work with the protective side of your personality and teach it that there really is nothing to fear.

When setbacks occur, it’s an indication that you now need to take your new understanding and work with your protective side, which is resisting the change.

You might want to think of that protective side as a small child who doesn’t want you (the parent) to take risks or do anything out of your comfort zone. Talk to this part yourself.

Reassure it that all will be well and that it’s necessary for you to work through the anxiety in order to experience more freedom and happiness.

Setbacks can feel like a big step backward, but they’re generally followed by rapid progress on many levels if you engage fully with this protective side of yourself.

There’s an opportunity here for you to create a new working relationship with your protective self, and this will really seal your recovery from panic attacks.

When you educate your protective self that you’re really safe and encourage it to take the steps with you, you become fully empowered to end your anxiety problem. All of your internal energies go in the same direction, and there’s no conflict.

Persistence is the key:

If you are determined to achieve recovery from Panic attacks, persistence will carry you through all setbacks and ensure your success.

Keep your confidence intact. Build it on the past, on each time you’ve succeeded.

Play those previous successes like a film in your head, again and again, each night as you go to sleep. All the panic attacks you’ve dealt with, all the sensations of anxiety you’ve felt and yet you still got on with it.

General anxiety disorder and, especially, panic attacks are probably the most frightening experiences a person can go through. In most cases, you feel like you’ve had a brush with death itself. That’s no small feat to deal with while on your lunch break!

Courage will give rewards:

Be proud of your experiences. You’re not a cowardly victim, but a survivor of a terrifying experience and what’s more, you probably stayed at work or collected the kids from school.

You continued living.

Sure, there may be a few hairy anxiety memories in the past that you’d prefer to forget, but the underlying emotion to build upon is that you survived and you’re here now, alive and living a new day. This attitude is necessary for recovery from panic attacks and general anxiety.

Build a wealth of memories, and they’ll be your resource from which to draw strength. Write them down, because that solidifies them and makes them more real in your mind. Read them to yourself regularly.

Be sure to keep a diary as written proof of the progress you’re making the trips you take that weren’t possible before, the special days when you completely forgot you ever had an anxiety problem.

You need to keep a record of these achievements because it’s easy for your protective side to negate the great strides you’ve made.

Confidence, just like fear, is contagious. Soon you’ll find it spreading to all areas of your life, giving you a quality of life even beyond your pre-anxiety days.

Always try to focus on the success you’ve achieved, and it will grow and expand in your life.

Persist with it

Recovery from Panic attacks and associated anxiety is possible. Turn a setback into an opportunity to solidify your real confidence. Regardless of what happens, you can handle it. Regardless of how your body feels, you’ll move through the anxiety and come out the other side smiling.

If you remain persistent, setbacks can be quickly turned to your advantage, and you’ll be strengthened by the experience.

Setbacks are delicate periods to move through, so you also need to be kind to yourself. Understand that they’re the result of YOU just trying to protect YOU.

Be your own best friend.

When you take your protective self by the hand and teach it that there’s nothing to fear, you’ll quickly march toward a greater experience of freedom.

Recovery is not a straight or linear process.

It will help if you try not to measure success on a day-to-day basis. Some days will be better than others that are just the way it is, so don’t get upset if you complete something successfully one day but fail the next.

Some days will be better than others that are just the way it is, so don’t get upset if you complete something successfully one day but fail the next.

Keep your eyes on the end goal, and persistence will carry you there.

What If My Anxiety Comes Back?

After a person has successfully moved out of their anxiety it is only natural, to at some stage, fear reoccurrence. I call this the anxiety shadow. It is a worry in the back of your mind that the anxiety could return with full force and disrupt your life all over again.

It is a worry in the back of your mind that the anxiety could return with full force and disrupt your life all over again.

Anxiety leaves such a strong imprint on people’s lives that it is normal to have such concerns. Fearing a return of anxiety is common when your life becomes stressful again. You worry that the extra stress will tip you back into a state of general anxiety. If you find yourself worrying in such a manner have faith that all will be well.

You worry that the extra stress will tip you back into a state of general anxiety. If you find yourself worrying in such a manner have faith that all will be well.

This worry is just a shadow of what has gone, it is based on the past, not the future. Generally, the anxiety shadow passes quickly after a day or two and you forget about it again. Remind yourself of the new tools and education you have. Take solace in the fact that your new understanding will lift the anxiety quickly again were it to return.

Remind yourself of the new tools and education you have. Take solace in the fact that your new understanding will lift the anxiety quickly again were it to return.

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